The life and times of an unpaid carer.

The life and times of an unpaid carer.

The daily life, struggles and ramblings of an unpaid carer

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  • Ableism in UK media drives disability hate

    From April, 2025, the dominant UK media storyline about disability was driven by government benefit and budget changes (coverage of PIP/Universal Credit reforms, SEND funding and budget measures). That policy focus produced wide public debate and a surge of both critical reporting and alarmist / stigmatising language in some outlets and broadcasts, and strong pushback…

    Mike O’Brien

    1st December 2025
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  • Unpaid Carers’ Rights in Wales

    Unpaid and Young carers in Wales have a number of statutory rights under the Social Services and Well-being (Wales) Act 2014, many of which are set out in the Charter for Unpaid Carers.   Key rights include: Where Welsh Government and Local Authorities Need to Do Better Despite these rights, there are important gaps between policy and reality. Some of…

    Mike O’Brien

    20th November 2025
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  • Young Carers in the UK: The Invisible Childhood

    Most people know what a “carer” is. Fewer people realise that in Britain today, tens of thousands of those carers are children and teenagers. A young carer is anyone under 18 who helps look after a parent, sibling, or relative who can’t manage daily life without support — perhaps because of illness, disability, addiction, or a…

    Mike O’Brien

    3rd November 2025
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  • The Invisible Workforce: How Unpaid Carers Quietly Hold Up the UK Economy

    When we talk about “the workforce” in the UK – most people think of employees, employers, tax, payroll, and monthly salaries. But there is a second workforce. A workforce without job contracts, without HR departments, without sick pay, without pension contributions, without training budgets. Unpaid carers. And what they contribute is not just noble, not…

    Mike O’Brien

    2nd November 2025
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  • The Cost of Living Crisis: Why Disabled People and Unpaid Carers Are Being Hit the Hardest

    Part One: Disabled People and the Cost of Living Crisis The Hidden Price of Disability The cost of living crisis has affected almost everyone across the UK, but for disabled people, it’s been catastrophic. Even before inflation surged, disabled households faced what campaigners call the disability price tag — the unavoidable extra costs of daily life. According to Scope,…

    Mike O’Brien

    30th October 2025
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    Carer’s Allowance, Carers UK, cost of living crisis UK, disability benefits, disability poverty, energy bills, Scope, social care, unpaid carers
  • Between Caring and Coping: Life as a Disabled Unpaid Carer

    Being a carer is often described as an act of love — and it is. But what people rarely talk about is how complicated that love can become when you’re also disabled yourself. When you’re trying to pour from an empty cup, it’s not just exhausting — it’s depleting. You find yourself juggling medication schedules, hospital…

    Mike O’Brien

    29th October 2025
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  • Caring in Wales 2025: The Hidden Cost of Caring for a Loved One

    If you care for a loved one — a parent, partner, child, or friend — you’re one of thousands of unpaid carers in Waleswho quietly keep families and communities going. You do it out of love, but it’s not easy. The latest Carers UK State of Caring 2025 report reveals what life is really like for carers today.…

    Mike O’Brien

    28th October 2025
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  • A Carers Dilemma

    My right shoulder is certainly the gift that keeps on giving. After seeking a second opinion regarding my continued lack of range of movement in my right arm I was told that I likely have a torn rotator cuff and will need an ultrasound scan to see the extent of the damage and whether or…

    Mike O’Brien

    30th April 2025
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  • The gift that just keeps on giving.

    As I wrote in yesterday’s blog, I recently sustained serious injuries after a fall back in October last year that changed my life and way of doing things possibly for the rest of my life. Last night I received a phone call from my GP surgery that very likely explains why the fractures I sustained…

    Mike O’Brien

    26th April 2025
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  • It Can Happen to Any One Of Us!

    As many of you know I am an unpaid carer for both of my elderly and disabled parents and I recently found myself staring down the barrel of disability. WHAT HAPPENED: Back in October 2024 I had a nasty fall which resulted in multiple fractures to my humerus, a dislocated humerus and damage to the…

    Mike O’Brien

    25th April 2025
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    chronic-illness, chronic-pain, disability, health, mental-health
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